I will write something more from myself, although I am afraid that people are reluctant to read long posts.
I read everything you write here. The story described by
@Sonya_Shinhouin charmed me.
High substantive level and beautiful, sublime language, which indicate the author's high emotional sensitivity and her level of personal culture.
I am not a native speaker, but I "feel" the language because I have been reading English literature for many years. I would like to be able to write so well in this language someday.
But back to the topic of this post. Currently, foot fetishists have unlimited access to the content that interests them. The creators of mainstream porn movies and photos, realized that foot fetish is so popular that it is worth having a model or porn actress take off her shoes during a sexual act or during a photo session because it will attract more people.
The same situation occurs on webcams. Girls are now more willing to perform without shoes there.
I think the general availability of photos and videos of women showing their feet reduces the sexual arousal of viewing this type of content.
People now are looking for content where women's feet are visible quite spontaneously. Of course, the situations in which we see it "live" - that is, we experience it personally, are what excite us the most.
However, when we are unable to participate in situations in which we may have the opportunity to see women's feet, we look for content that looks like documented evidence of someone participating in such a situation and taking photos or videos.
This type of truly amateur content appears on forums or Facebook groups, which is why they are so frequently visited. Any commercial websites that boast about amateur materials taken with hidden cameras make us fear that these photos and videos are in fact staged.
More about my own experiences. A view of a woman playing with her shoes in a public space. Dangling, dipping and heelpopping. When I remember this sight while masturbating, I become more aroused and I come faster than when I watch photos of a beautiful girl on Instagram, even if she declares that she is a fetishist of her own feet and loves to show them.
I also noticed that women's feet have a great influence on my life choices.
A less attractive woman with beautiful feet is more interesting to me than a pretty woman with ugly feet.
So if I go on a date with a girl on a nice summer day and she comes on the first date wearing sports shoes, I will think that her feet must smell beautiful after spending many hours in these shoes.
But if this girl comes to the next two dates wearing closed shoes, I'm starting to think that she must have a problem with her feet and hates showing them off. She is no longer attractive to me and there will be no fourth date.
I know it sounds terrible because she may have a wonderful mind and soul, but I'm just a guy.
Maybe you'll say that I could try harder and get her into bed on the third date and see myself what her feet are like, but honestly, I'm conservative, and besides, if I was in bed with a woman and she had terrible feet, I wouldn't get an erection. It could cause her great embarrassment, and I could also expose myself to ridicule.
After all, nothing scares us more than the vision of erection problems in an intimate situation.
So when a girl I'm going on a date with comes in open shoes, preferably flip-flops, I immediately see her feet and feel that she's interesting to me. I will be happy to arrange further meetings with her and establish a closer acquaintance or even a relationship if I am charmed by her psyche.
I think this is a serious problem. How many years I lost with women who had beautiful feet, but after a long time it turned out that they were not women with whom I could spend the rest of my life. Sometimes I wonder that completely normal guys, for whom women's feet don't matter at all, have it much easier. For me, a woman not only has to be physically and mentally attractive, but she also has to have attractive feet.
What do you think about this? What does this situation look like for you?